The author De Becker has turned into the career to protect people and predict the occurrence of violent behaviors. He is the CEO of a company that handles security for the top superstars such as Madonna, Michael J.Fox, John Travolta, and Geena Davis. The author of the book titled, “Gift of Fear,” has the perception that most people suffer because they have an ignorance of their fears and signals for survival. For instance, the author gives advice to women that they should use their instincts. In addition, he has a belief that every criminal activity has the warning to break avoid the risk that might occur. People, therefore, need to be alert to possibility of a danger. In his book, De Becker recounts about motives, signals of warning, and the defense mechanisms among wife batterers, assassins, violent children, and workers who are enraged.
The Relevance of The Book in The System of Criminal Justice
In the book, Gift of fear, Gavin De Becker gives relevant strategies to help the audience to avoid psychological disorders through lessons of warning signs and antecedents of violence. Oprah Winfrey refers to the author of the book as Nations leading expert on violence that exist among people in the community. He clearly shows how people can sense about subtle indicators of danger before it is too later. In addition, Becker offers the strategies that one can use to protect themselves and their members of the family. For instance, the readers of the book enhance their knowledge about how to react when a stranger approach them and when to fear the people around them.
The book is recommended for the governments, police departments and rock stars on the best way to advise victims of violence. Becker provides the local authority with relevant information on how employers can assess the potential candidates that are likely to revenge and cause harm. Through the knowledge provided by the author the staffs in the system of criminal justice are able to make crucial decisions and in the promotion of justice.
The Books Relevance to Domestic Terror
In “The Gift of Fear”, De Becker offers in-depth solutions to people who go through domestic violence or other forms of harassment at the workplace. He moves the reader from being victims of violence within families by providing real solutions to issues related to fear and personal violence. He gives a description of a young woman by the name Kelly who was sexually harassed by a stranger who was helping her with her groceries. He states that the thing that pulled Kelly from denial and forced her to take action was the overwhelming fear or intuition that she would die. Becker, therefore, gives the advice that people should always trust their instincts.
In life, it is under stable that men and women have different fears in that men are in that women will laugh at them. On the contrary, women live in fear that men might kill them or abuse them physically. De Becker states that in the families, it is easy to see the signals of violence to determine whether a partner in marriage is trustworthy or not. He has assisted women to predict the behaviors of their loved ones to know of the time they plan to cause them harm.
In the book that is classic to predict people who can cause harm, Becker differentiates on the things that women need to fear and the ones that do not need to cause anxiety. In a summary, the author teaches on the ways to use fear in the right way. Just like the case of Kelly described above, a man offers to assist her to carry groceries into her house and Kelly develops fear because of her voice. However, Kelly acts against her intuitions and walks to her house with a rapist. The scenario is a clear indicator that before an occurrence of violence, there is always a signal that something bad might happen.
The Book’s Relevance to Avoiding Victimization.
According to the discussion by De Becker on safety precautions, it is obvious that his book was the best seller in the New York. The author gives a description of seven signs of survival that are easily understood. In most cases, victims of violence should always trust their intuitions as a strategy of survival. Becker gives a warning that the people who want to cause harm always appear nice although that does not reflect goodness. In many parts of the world, men are always more violent than women due to different settings of socialization. At the place of work, De Becker in the various chapters of his book highlights on how to spot troublesome workers at the place of work.
In my opinion, the wisdom in the book is both interesting and useful to victims of violence. In the back of the book, the author gives helpful appendices that can benefit everyone as the audience. Besides, he points out that in every one hour, about 75 women fall in as victims of rape because of not trusting their intuition on how the offender behaves. It is evident that there is no mystery among human beings that cannot be dealt with.